(Having sex with them being sexually open and generous and having nice tits too!) I started therapy but I also wanted some advice from you. I wish someone had told me that having sex with someone isn't a guarantee that everything will always work out. He means a lot to me and we want to continue to be friends. I know his tastes and preferences shouldn't be a problem for me now, since we are no longer together, but I can't stop thinking about them.
Undressing for someone and then being rejected was devastating and I don't have other experiences to weigh this one against and take reassurance from. We had talked about all the sexual stuff we wanted to do and he had previously told me I was attractive and thicc and paid me other compliments. Other than slight doubts about genitals and my face (I have Asian features and having my face and living in a western country isn't always easy), I didn’t go into that experience expecting to be rejected. He kept cuddling me to make me feel a bit better but it still hurt to hear. We were actually still in bed naked when he told me. My partner found out he didn't like my body when we were having sex for the first time and he told me right after. I'm a 19-year-old girl who was dumped few months ago.
